Dear anonymous, I have been known to dish out nuggets of wisdom from time to time and I would be honored to do so here. If you have anything troubling on your mind and you would like my opinion on the situation feel free to PM(private message me) about it. The moment I read it I will post my reply on this thread. Don't worry, I will leave you anonymous if that's what you'd prefer. :) Love, Britt
How do you keep yourself from falling in love with a guy who you know will only play you and break your heart? But you want to keep kissing him without the wholehe's-so-sweet-to-me-maybe-he's-changed. Basically, how can you be friend's with benefits and not want a relationship?
Carolinaaa, From experience I have found that it's pretty difficult to be friends with benefits, especially if you are hooking up with the guy for a long time. Although it may be possible, as long as you make sure that there are no deeper feelings attatched to the kissing. You have to keep in mind that once a player, always a player, especially if he's more than willing to have a friends with benefits type of relationship. If it was a he's so sweet, maybe he has changed situation then he would let you know from the start that he wants something more, like a committed relationship. I hope I was of some help, Britt :)